I have been "attracted" to a few women since W left - perfectly normal. It doesn't help that I work with extremely bright and attractive young women (tough luck, eh?). I just keep reminding myself that it's too soon to do anything other than look (and maybe flirt a bit). I still have way too much healing to do to make myself whole again.
Your time will come, and when you're ready you'll know it. Until then, enjoy the attention!!
M:32 W:26 Kids: None Cats: 2 Together: 9 years Married: May 2005 Bomb: September 2006 Sep: November 2006