Therapy sounds crucial to me. I was also raised in a home where things were thrown including slaps, never from a man. My mother was abusive to everyone, perhaps it is cultural? My H's anger is very threatening even without a raised fist or a slam against a wall. I am 20 lbs heavier than my H and I have been trained my whole life in martial arts, but it is his anger that frightens me and my kids when he yells. Please, give her space as pursuing could look very bad for you. Stay calm no matter what buttons get pushed. Give eveything a day to cool if neccessary. Take care of your health. Try not to drink or do drugs. I am also guilty of fighting in front of the kids. Sometimes things get so heated we do things that we know are wrong, but we have to stay calm. Good luck, there is still hope.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
