What about writing one for you and putting it in the box without telling her?

Asking her to help, as we know, not a good idea. Maybe she'll look in there and read it, maybe not.

This way you keep the tradition on your end, but don't push her. Plus, there's the chance she'll still see it.

Not sure if that's a good idea, but it's an idea \:\)

BD

My latest

Me: 36
W: 35
2 D: 9 and 5
T: 16 years
M: 12
10/4/06: Bomb
10/5/06: Ended A
4/22/07: ILYBNILWY

I'm a beautiful butterfly.