how are you? i haven't seen you post in a couple of weeks. hope you're parent is doing well.
i've been busy with work/kids/nephew/husband/housekeeping that i don't have time to surf the net as much. i do like being busy. it relaxes me......it's weird.
i have come a long way on my own. my h is back. i can't believe what i'm writing.
MY HUSBAND IS BACK!! on his own. since his trip to NY a couple of months ago he has been different. he posted a video on youtube and he tells the kids he misses them alot and he's feeling lonely without them. he looks at the camera and says "miss you too". i guess a little time apart and a thousand miles away really did some good. he actually missed me.
we have alot to work on. i don't feel like taking everything at once and saying it's ok now. little by little i want to work on things. i tell him exactly how i feel and i told him to tell me the same thing. if something is bothering him i prefer he tell me and not hold it in. if i need some time to myself or vice versa, then we go to another room or we go somewhere. so far so good. i have yet to find a marriage counselor. there are some issues that we can't workout on our own. money issues.
hopefully i'll hear from you soon. take care of YOU first. always.
me=34 H=35...finally acting his age kids=3 restoring what we once had. little by little.
