Thanks lwb. I have calmed down a bit, but still am wondering if my son will ever bring it up again, or hold it in. I am on the fence if I should have my kids have a session with the therapist, but I don't want them to start worrying or having issues if they haven't yet. I just worry cuz my son is the type of kit to internalize alot of stuff, he is a very emotional child.
Update. H sent a text and apologized, in all the years he has never apologized for anything, I am always the first, even if I am not truly sorry, just cuz I can't stand fighting. He texted "sorry you pushed my buttons". not sure if it counts, but I will take it, but decided not to respond.
H called my cell phone a couple times while we were all shopping in Target. I missed the first call, and answered the second. He wanted to talk to the kids, he hasn't called to talk to them in over two weeks. Wondering if he feels guilty. It was to busy to talk to them in the store so he is supposed to call back in a bit.
