What if he's different? Will going dark work?

[theotherhalf]

I just don't know if going dark is the right move for my husband and I. I am trying to work on me right now. But I am not sure that leaving him alone is the answer. That's what he wants but I am afraid that is to ease his pain and guilt and make it easier to end things. Through out our marriage I was the kisser, hugger, cuddler, talker. Up until the last year before the bomb.

Any thoughts on this.