Hope,

I am glad to hear that you did not get sucked into your H's drama. It shows a lot of composure and growth on your part. I believe that reality hits our S's at different times then it did us. Probably the reason why they start thinking about us being with someone else after we let go. Even my W at one time mentioned that I would find somebody quickly. I had no idea where they comment came from, but she said it. I guess she doesn't realize that I am not looking for just somebody and that our girls are huge concern for me with whomever I date(unlike her).

I bet the little verbal jab felt pretty good. There is not a whole lot he can say about that one. You are lady with integrity and it seems he is a man without any.

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I think I'm married to an idiot.

ROFL...Hmmmm....can I say that I told you so? But, then again you never disagreed. He just confirmed it further tonight.

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He's supposed to be coming over this weekend to get some more stuff.

Well if you really want to drive him crazy you should pull out your bikini and go tanning on the deck while he is there......Scratch that no use playing stupid games. I say go with what you did last time. Be cordial and hurry him along because you are busy GAL.

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I just have to stay strong and realize that he not worth it and that I deserve better.

You know that you are worth more and deserve to be treated and cherished in ways that he is incapable of at this point.

Take Care,
Scott