LO, so sorry you have to deal with this, when your last posts seems that it is turning in your favor. My guess, OW did some pushing and H was stressed. He blew up on you because he didn't know what to do. Like someone who is trying to quit drugs but took that one puff and got caught. So he blew up on you. What to do/react? I don't know. May be just to wait and see how he reacts in the next few days while you continue to GAL? It does sound odd that he said you two are not working on M when your posts sounds to me that both of you ARE working on M. Do you think this is just "one of those things H says in the heat of the argument"? Did he elaborate any? Hugs regardless
M 38, H 38, two sons Met 20 years ago Married 13 years Bomb: Oct, 2006 DB: Started in Dec, 2006 H moved out for 3 weeks in Mar, 2007 H back home and piecing?