alamogirl...thanks for the kind words and thoughts..im hanging in there...my dad was up from FLA last week and we had a great time..one day when i got home from work WAW and dad were chatting on the backdeck of our house...he said she made a feeble attempt to explain her WAW actions.....i then sat with them and chatted and she ended up spending over 2 hrs here...still weird even post D...the next day my XFIL and my dad and the boys went to lunch...she seemed blindsided and pissed about this when i saw her @ S16 soccer game later that evening..next am (fri) she dropped my S8 off and had him wake me up..she kissed me on the cheek and said have a nice weekend...since then i have had no conversations with her and give the phone to S8 when she calls...its weird and hard but its getting better all the time...i hope you are doing ok and wish you the best......OF- you hang in there too buddy.....sounds like you are ready to move forward yourself.....god bless...BT


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WAW-42
S16
S8
bomb 5/5/06
separated 10/6/06
D 4/18/07