Hi IK, Couldn't you tell, I ALREADY am! (Oh yeah, that was in my dreams, not for real!) LOL
For real, those were my original goals and their progress since March.
Not what I was hoping for, esp. in that W is still in a fog over OM/depression?. I am really struggling with what my goals really are with respect to my marriage. More and more, it is appearing to me that the things that will make me happy in the long run are in conflict with staying married to W. The one exception is that I currently get to see my kids every day. After a D, this will likely not be the case.
Will post again later after I have thought/read a bit.
SD
Me 41 W 41 Kids: S9 S7 Married 16 years Bomb dropped 2/2/07 Still living together! current thread