That is a toughy...I would almost be inclined to call OW but then I know that is against DB'ing rules...
I think H needs to stand on his own two feet...get some counseling so he realizes that the decision for her to commit suicide has NOTHING TO DO WITH HIM...she makes her own decisions...people do everyday...ask him if you got depressed and threatened to commit suicide would he end it with her??? If not then his reasoning holds no water...
What about letting you answer the calls when she calls just so "subtly" she finds out he is with you even though he is away...
She sounds like a nut job if you ask me...does he REALLY want to be her world?...what a mixed up place to live!!!
Let us know what you decide...or if you do anything...
