don't call! okay, I'm only saying that because that's what db and everyone here says. its pursuing, plain and simple. one of my best friends is a therapist and she tried to drum it into my head months ago...that if you pursue someone who doesn't want to be pursued, the only place they have to go is away...exactly what you don't want to happen. now, I'm no expert, but that makes sense to me. but then again, I have guaranteed contact with my H regularly, even if its just about the kids.
I'm sure it hurts that she hasn't called. I think this really sucks, actually, and I'm so sorry.
keep concentrating on you. and enjoy the concert!
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"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"