Well listen to this! Yesterday after we worked in the yard, weeding and whatnot, I made us dinner and he worked on trying to fix my laptop. (When I have computer problems, I *really* have computer problems.) So, while he was doing the computer stuff, we were kinda flirty. He tried to convince me to 'go upstairs' and I wouldn't do it. Boy, howdy- did he try. At one point I said "Dude. I told you; I wasn't going to be part of a harem and once you moved out the rules of engagement were changed. I specifically said that you would need to date me and that a date was NOT showing up on Sunday, hanging out, watching TV and then getting some." H "Well, I'm taking you out tomorrow night." (This is to see off our fave bartender at our bar.) Me "If you think that's a "date" you're crazy. Meeting at a bar and sitting on stools in close proximity is NOT a date. Puhleeze."
He also tried to get me to cave in with the idea that he would take me on a date later on. Nope.
As he was leaving (a very frustrated man, I might add) he said, "How about I take you out to dinner tomorrow night before we go to the bar?" I said "ok-where?" and so we tossed a few ideas around and (I just remembered) I said I would check the Entertainment book. (oops.) We left it that he would call me today and we would figure out a place and time.
I almost expected him to blow me off (since I wouldn't give in and we did make out, so I am sure he felt "teased" to a degree.) But instead, he did call AND he actually had researched a restaurant for us to try.
That is the good news. In a separate post, I am going to update the "bad" news.
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing