Nope I didn't write it down. I got married at 21 (strike one) b/c I was pregnant (strike two) and we'd only been dating a little over 7 months (strike three!). I stayed at home with our daughter (now D14) and he worked, so we were broke most of the time (is there a strike four?). Anyway, things were strained from the beginning and throwing a baby into the mix doesn't help a newly married couple..oh and we moved 9 hours from my family. We'd been married a little over a year when my H (now XH) decided to join the Air Force, so I took D and went home to Georgia and lived w my parents. While he was in tech school I'm pretty sure he had an affair, but he never admitted to it. He says that he just tried to be her friend and she wanted more. When we got to our first base he was ARRESTED for adultery b/c girl turned him in, he ended up having something on his record for 6 months..then it dropped off. Okay, I'm having a nervous breakdown, threatening to take D and go home. He says the girl is crazy, and I believed him. Then about 3 months later this girl shows up at our church! One of our friends at church found out that she switched orders with someone to come to the base we were at (this is turning into a Lifetime movie isn't it?). Basically, nothing happened after that. I stood by my man (::gags::) and she ended up marrying someone and leaving our church.
