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I am sorry that you are having to deal with this. I agree with W33, it is okay to cry. Just don't do it in front of her. And I think both STT and W33 are right. Go out and try and do something to relieve some of your tension. Even if it is just going for a walk or jog. It helps me relieve some of my stress when I am feeling really wound up. This could help you in the PMA when your W gets home.

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Oh, man. W just forwarded the mediation documents to me for this Thursday. Oh, happy, happy, joy, joy. Kind of numb. Sitting her kindof just trying not to cry.


I suppose there is something about seeing things on paper that really makes it hit home. I hope I never have to experience it, and I am sorry that you find yourself there.

Just remember what your ultimate goal is. And before you do/say anything tonight, ask yourself if it is going to get you closer to your goal.


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M-28
W-28
Together 10 years
Married 2 years
No children
Things started taking a turn in 01/07