Are we piecing yet?

[Have Faith]

lwb,

It takes time. I still obsess over her, but I am finding it easier as time goes by. Have you and H discussed what changes he would like to see in you and you in him. I found that my H and I started growing apart because we just didn't spend enough time together. He understands this now.

There is a needs questionnaire on this web-site. I filled it out and then gave it to my H. I didn't think that he would complete one for me, but he did. It helped me understand my needs better and what I was missing and was probably angry about. His turned up some interesing things too. http://www.marriagebuilders.com/

I bring this up only so that you know what you need to start working on and showing him those changes. Since he is living with you, you have a better chance of him seeing you make those changes and see what he would be missing if he left for OW. You want to be the best lwb you can be.

You are doing great with no pressing him about A and OW.

Faith