"Let go of expecting my H to love in the way I love him.... words to me are like Gold and yet he talks to me not enough and then when he has an out burst he says very cruel words. But I need to stop listening when he talks like a Mad Man. Then when the words drip out of his mouth like Syrup, even though they may be real... my Heart shuts them out."
Alimari,
You are human. The plan to not let his brutality bother you is not and should not work. Brutality should bother you.
