i'm finding this exchange between you and slowly really great... I think it's so important to think about this concept of building a new, better relationship with WAS, given the opportunity.
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I don't think my W is as nurturing as I ince thought or assumed. And I guess someone can become more nurturing, but that seems like a large mountain to climb.
And, in reality, W may never climb all the way to the top of that mountain, like you would ideally desire. But if she's aware, and working on climbing it to join you...then that would be a real change, huh?
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Originally Posted By: slowly It took a long time to settle into a new pace, and I have to say, it has been worth the effort.
That is inspiring because some days I think I should throw in the towel and move on.
As you well know, this is a marathon, not a sprint... and of course, for you and me and many of us, children change and magnify the stakes in this endeavor. Sitting around last night with H and Ss, looking at S17s slideshow from his month in China, brought that into clear focus for me last night.
