Faith,

H's OW is married but supposedly unhappy. I wonder how her H feels, if he knows, what's going on in their house. I know, I know, don't let OW consume me. Easier said than done.

And you totally pegged it. My H has it pretty good here too, most of the time. Especially since I started DB'ing, because he can avoid confrontations with me altogether. At times its peaceful and at times it feels fake, you know?