Could you ask her to meet for a cup of coffee or something rather than asking her to go to your place? Not sure, but maybe "neutral ground" might get her to meet face to face with you.
Another alternative is to just be there when she picks up your kids. Rather than ambushing her, tell her that you're going to be there and want to ask her a few things. Where are they? If your parents are watching them, you can ask them to be scarce for a little while.
I was going to suggest asking her to lunch, but that's probably too much.
Finally, could you meet her at work? After she gets off?
Just throwing these out because I think face to face is better over the phone. 10 to 1 as soon as you ask your W to talk, I've got a feeling she's going to have a pretty good guess as to what you want to talk about.
Dance lessons are going well. Another private lesson on Friday. 3 more after that, so about 7 more weeks. Then off to rugby (won't able to really afford the continue if my W and I separate). Got invited to try the foxtrot bronze class last Friday, but I was whipped and starving so bowed out, but that was nice for the PMA. Gotta figure out how to turn/travel a bit better rather than be stuck in that damn box
Just a few thoughts, no real solid opinons for you.
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