You have to remember that your W cannot think rationally and be reasonable. I don't want you to rock the boat only for you to get hurt more in the end. One more thing to consider is that you mentioned your W was forwarding all your emails to her attorney.
I understand your concern and have the same concerns myself. Maybe I should just wait until the D is final and make it my goodbye. I wasn't planning on being accusatory or negative. I just want to let her know how I feel and have felt throughout this ordeal and our M. I wanted to tell her about my unmet hopes and dreams for our M and the fact she must have them as well. Like you, I have done everything that I could have possibly done to save my M and make our M work. I guess it was just not meant to be. The end of my M is disappointing, but, there will eventually be someone better for me.
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I am actually starting to look forward to meeting someone new.
So am I. However I do not plan on jumping back into a serious R. Then again I am a person that if I do not see a possible future I will not go down that road. So dating will be interesting. Besides the fact that I was married to baseball, I never really dated before my W because I never meet someone that I saw a future with. So entering the dating scene will again be an interesting experience for me.
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He never was a great guy. I want to meet the great guy.
A great guy is what you deserve. I am glad I no longer have to remind you of that.
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You and I are both going to move on to better things. We have to...a lot of people are looking for someone like us.
I know that this is true for you, who wouldn't want Hope in their life. I just hope whomever it is for me can love me and my girls the way we deserve. My little girls deserve having a healthy example of a loving M in their lives, even if it cannot be their mommy and daddy together.
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The book described a bunch of unhealthy relationships. The jist of the book was that if you are in the right relationship...you shouldn't have to walk on eggshells, he/she will like your family and friends, you will want to talk to each other a couple of times a day, he/she will not commit the ultimate betrayal by cheating on you and disrespecting you and it goes on and on.
Sounds like an interesting book. You, the book, are absolutely right you should not have to walk on eggshells in a healthy R. There will always be something that you won't agree with your significant other about, but, you respect those differences and work through them to at least come to an understanding about them.
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Yes, I would have stayed in my marriage because I stood behind my vows, but my H is pushing me out, so I will start over...I will find the man who will cherishes me and loves me for me. Scott, you will do the same...the future is brighter.
I too wanted to made a stand for the vows that I took. I did not take them lightly and will not in the future if I find someone else.
I believe you are right the future is brighter for the both of us.
