"I bore you with all that because the point is, YOU, do you hear me, YOU need to make long-term changes for YOU which she WILL notice.

I have said this to others, if YOU change, the whole relationship has no choice but to change. Your W has to be able to come out of this fog she is in, but she WILL notice you changing trust me. She wont admit it right away, but she is watching no matter what her actions say."

Did CVA write that? Good Job W33! And god job CVA!

M 39
W 39
M'd 10 yrs; T 14 yrs
S7 D4
Bomb 5-8-05
W not working on M 1-22-07; EA 2-22
DB 4-10
S 6-11
No more C
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