Just catching up on your thread. Seems like you have spent some good quality time with W lately. I think that one of the most important things we can do to help along our DB efforts is to make the time that our WA's spend with us as comfortable and safe feeling for them as possible. By ensuring that they feel comfortable spending time together, it makes them realize that they don't have to "want" to not spend time with us. Just seems like you are heading in that direction and I believe it is a good thing. Don't worry about the R talk the other day (believe nothing of what they say). Just dust yourself off and keep DBing. We all have little setbacks now and again.
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Oh, well. Pretty bummed about the direction here. Like turning the Queen Mary without a rudder or power.
That is a prety good analogy and I know exactly how you feel.
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1162413&page=2#Post1162413 M-28 W-28 Together 10 years Married 2 years No children Things started taking a turn in 01/07
