At least you can afford IKEA. I think I might be stuck shopping at Target or Wal-Mart, blech. Looking like I'm headed for separation as well. A shame about your H, he obviously wants to be with you but just doensn't get it. That has got to be frustrating. Good call on the futon, I think you're juuuust too old for one.
Saw your coining of "DILF" on CVA's thread. Here's to hoping someone feels that way about me again someday -- hopefully my W.
BD
My latest
Me: 36 W: 35 2 D: 9 and 5 T: 16 years M: 12 10/4/06: Bomb 10/5/06: Ended A 4/22/07: ILYBNILWY