the only thing I can suggest is to see both a lawyer and, if you aren't already, a therapist.
I'll be honest, I've put up with a lot of crap from my h, but if he ever physically laid a hand on me, I can tell you right now I would NOT look back. however, you never know, so if you want to try to make things right, keep working toward that goal. therapy will likely help. going to the battery intervention program sounds like a good step. If you don't have DB/DR yet, read one or both.
good luck! I hope you find a way to fix things. wish I could offer more advise.
M-41 H-38 M-10 years, T-14 years Bomb-PA 3/19/07 Separated-6/7/07 Piecing/h back home 5/08 S-6 S-4 D-4
"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"
