First let me say that I appreciate a person who admits to ranting and raving.
Your H seems completely content with the notion of dragging you down. If you don't out a stop to it, no one else will. Do you recognize that. I agree with SF, this letter will do nothing. At some point in time, you are going to have to make a decision to change your situation. You really not need to put a stop to nonsense. He is running up the bills and he will leave you holding the bag. That is not love.
