Are we piecing yet?

[Have Faith]

lwb - You are correct, he does not want to move out. He has someone to make him dinner every night, do his laundry, and do his grocery shopping. Some one who is nice and is most of the time pleasant to him. We have a very nice home that we build together. But, I know it is time for a little reality. My husband hasn't been seeing much of OW, but they do correspond and they do see each other at the gym. I think if he moves out, this might knock him off the fence sooner.

mkultra - I have put my rings away for now and wear a beautiful ruby ring he gave me on my 50th b-day on my ring finger. I find it more comfortable then no ring at all.

I'm sorry that you have to endure your H going out after work. The "in your face" attitude was why I had to force my H to move out the first time. This time is different. I believe that having my H home for the last 12 weeks has worked wonders. He was afraid of what it would be like when or if he came back home. He has found out that it has been for the most part pleasant and we have really enjoyed each others company. No sex yet thought

I'm reading the book NOT Just Friends and it says these women are usually single, or have already detached from their husbands. What really makes me angry is that the OW tells my husband that she doesn't want to be the cause of a D. Of course, he tells her that she isn't the cause, that we were having problems b/4 he ever met her. Well, it would have been nice if he would have talked to me about our problems instead of her. Oh, and she is single, never been married and has no children.

Faith