CVA - Angels vs. Devils

[33wendell]

CVA,

I am sure that you do a great job at whatever you set your mind to.
Apply that to the necessary change in you. Someone once wrote...

"I bore you with all that because the point is, YOU, do you hear me, YOU need to make long-term changes for YOU which she WILL notice.

I have said this to others, if YOU change, the whole relationship has no choice but to change. Your W has to be able to come out of this fog she is in, but she WILL notice you changing trust me. She wont admit it right away, but she is watching no matter what her actions say."

Good advice!

So apply that mind of yours to changing you - according to a guy called CVA the relationship will follow.

W33