Hi Lin! How did you cope those 2 years of separation? Don't think I could bear it.
Been told today by my counsellor that I am allowing this to happen; it is my choice. I think she means I should ask him to leave because he is 'comfortable' with the situation as it is. H told me he was scared to leave in case it didn't work out and he didn't want to burn his bridges. I was convinced he would move out very soon but it's not happening yet.
Instead, he seems to be accelerating his 'visits' which include a long weekend now. I feel like saying 'go' but he should have the guts to leave, Lin. What do you think?
