You are right. I have issues and need to deal with them or I will never be in a place that is healthy for me, our M if it survives, my kids or any future R.
Time to get to work. Thought I was getting there, but yesterday was a wake up call to me as I ranted about everything under the sun. My mistake has been, "oh, if I just get this out here or in counseling, I am dealing with it" when really all I am doing is bitching and complaining about old issues that still bother me. Unresolved issues will kill my R with everyone.
Thanks again. C
Me: 46 Wife: 39 D: 13 S: 11, 9, 7 Bomb 3.2.07, Sep Same Day, D papers 11.1.07 Current Status - Wants to take me through Discovery, I will go to prison first.
