Sorry to hear about the convo, I know how you fell and I deserve the hit with the stick as well because I have said the same things. I'm sure it is what pushed my W away, so stop it, don't talk about it anymore.
Remember, believe nothing she says and only 50% what she does. When you guys are good it is winks around the lake, hugs, ect. When you talk it goes south. So let it be. This is coming from Chatty Me, so that show how much it sucks.
The physical attraction thing is funny, I have noticed lately that I'm looking at my W and noticing physical flaws and not seeing her in the same light at all. I think it is normal, it is part of the pull back and detachment.
Keep the PMA going and go do something for yourself.
