Sex isn't just sex, ever. I believe that. There are so many emotions involved in it, even if we try to hide them. She wanted to be closer to you, end of story. She knows she can come to you, and even afterwards, you won't try to stifle her with R talk. That helped, I bet.

H and I and have sex twice this weekend (isn't it odd to talk about this with strangers?), for the first time in months. He started it both times, and we both really enjoyed it. Even though I was overcome with emotion about it (even the next day), I went about our lives as if. Hard. And yes, we both agreed that it doesn't 'fix' anything, but felt right.

Have a good day.