Need Help!!!

[NoDirection]

Here is the ultimate mixed message. As I went to bed last night I wished her a good night and started down the hallway. I noticed she said good night with a bit of sarcasm and so I returned and asked what was wrong. Earlier in the evening she stated that she was bored. Previously she was bored in the relationship but tonight she was just bored at home. Which is an improvement because she usually will point the finger at me.

So, as the conversation unfolded it came out that she wanted to have sex. It was not "making love," it was just going to be sex. Before anything began she did remind me that it would not change her stance on things which I told her I understood that one night of sex would not change the past three months. I viewed it as sign that she was letting her guard down even though she was so rigid on her stance not changing.

The more I think about it though the more I question it. Afterwards I acted "as if" and went to bed without a hughe outpouring of affection. She did thank me as I went to bed. I pray that it is a step in the right direction not a one time thing that helped her feed an urge...