Minor problem today (sounds funny to call it minor, but compared to the whole sitch, it really is). Today, my wife, daughter, and m-i-l are going to visit the town they used to live in. My m-i-l wants to go there because she still has friends there and fond memories of the place. This is where my W lived when she was in her first year of H.S., this is where she met and fell in love with the OG.

I am a little worried that my W will feel such nostalgia and longing for the happiness of those times (as oppossed to the problems of today) that she will re-contact the OM, and maybe the A will reignite.

Of course, there is little I can do to prevent that. I think the actions I could take now could only make it worse. I plan on staying quiet and try not to let my mind think too much on it.

Looking at the worst I could imagine happening, I can survive it - although it'll hurt like hell.

I wonder if she worries at all about me meeting someone else and moving on - or just moving on?

Wish me luck.


M45, W45,S15, D10,
Bomb 10/3/06, Moved back in 11/6/06, finally ILY 9/07
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