So Lou is seeking opinions here about whether the guy not O'ing would be a disappointment to the woman.
My answer: yes it would, but not necessarily that much. One of the good things about being a woman whose guy ain't getting there is that you get to get there multiple times. It's only after about the 7th that you start feeling a bit guilty. LOL
I am seeking opionions on behalf of myself, Kettricken, LFL, Honeypott, Mojo (althoug I think she knows) and many more too numerous to mention on what gets a guy into Pirate/wolf mode. Is it just passage of time and build up of testosterone? Or are there other factors. Of course there will be guys out there who think of themselves as always in wolf mode. But of the ones who don't, what makes you go for it in a way that makes the woman not have much choice. I am not talking rape fantasies here I am talking "we are going to the circus" rather than "would you like to go to the circus?".
Why does this make a woman hot? 1. She can abdicate all responsibility and relax 2. She likes to be with a man that knows what he wants and knows how to get it 3. She likes to feel like the guy is stronger than her 4. Risk/vulnerability. Submitting to him doing whatever he wants with her is very vulnerable and for this reason VERY sexy. It's all about really trusting the guy.
Fran
if we can be sufficient to ourselves, we need fear no entangling webs Erica Jong
