So to this day your kids have not met OW? I wish that was my case:( In the beginning H would say "at least I am not taking them over to her house, like she wants"! Well, that was short lasted!! Now I have put my foot down (maybe a little too late) b/c I no longer will stand for the girls 6,7 & 10yrs to spent the weekends over OWs'. I told my H if he wants to continue w/ overnighters he needed to make it LEGAL by filing, but while we are still M no way Jose.