hey Kevin, sometimes the madness has to run its curse, they are in the "honeymoon" stage when all is rosy and great and she might be deaf to reason. Are you guys still going to therapy? do you talk there about her plans to fly out to meet him? You have made a total 180 and seem repentant for what you've done, keep up the good changes. As far as her contacting him some boundaries need to be drawn. Who pays for the air fare/cell phone bill? who stays with the child when she is gone? Do not enable her negative actions in any way.
The ILYBNILWY sindrome isn't permanent, love is a desicion not a feeling, so dont' loose hope.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
