Last night after posting I went out to trampoline to watch shooting stars with d16 d11 s8 and their cousin 11, they where already outthere. we had some laughs, it was great. i put s8 to bed and went to spare room. w was on the phone w om i could here her talking door was shut. half hour later i woke up hearing cousin asking d11 why is your dad sleeping in spare room. in a couple minuites heard d11 knocking on our bedroom door. w must have still been on phone. This morning I went in our room to get clothes and d11 was sleeping w/w. I woke wife and told her what i heard. she said i will have a talk w/d11 today. I feel worthless in this sitch. I get removed from our room and sneek to bed w//out d11 knowing. It just makes you feel like crap.