I feel for you. 3 years and still having hope - that is amazing and an encouragement to me. It has been six months separation for me and I recently came upon some information that makes me want to throw in the towel, but I too can not envision being with anyone else and believe that she is in MLC.

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I wonder if and when he does, will he come home or will he look for someone else? How do you tell what the outcome will be?

That is a great question and one I often wonder myself, but I think we both know that we can not predict the outcome and only take care of ourselves. I can so relate and am impressed with your holding in there. Best of luck.


Me: 48
Ex-W: 45
M: Nov '96, together since Oct 93
Bomb: on 10-yr anni - Nov '06
OM
Separated: mid-Feb '07
Divorced mid-July '08
One daughter - 28
XW living w/OM