Hey, I'm sorry, Heimlich. I do think I was a little harsh, and not making enough allowance for the state of your feelings right now. If it makes you feel any better, I will tell you this: in the early days of my discovery of H's affair, he would have been downright grateful to be called "unintellectual"--instead of all the things I threw at him, intermingled with quotations from his girlfriend's poetry. If I could only have shut up just one month earlier....
I think that you've attained a far greater sense of humility, much earlier in the game, than I ever did.
