Remember to act "As if" when they come home. So act as if you are happy to see them cone through the front door. That's what I do and it puts a positive frame for the entire afternoon. My H feels welcome in a home where people care abouthim. I am sure my friends think I am crazy not to throw dishes at his mug, but it is "As if"!
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Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."