SHE needs to see what it is she is giving up and losing. SHE needs to see that you 2 still "have it," it was just sat on the back burner for a long time and it needs to be heated up again.
She knows what she's giving up, or at least she has told me that. She tells me that she wants to try and find what she hasn't felt with me. This past month is the longest we have ever gone without physical affection. Before the bomb it was a couple of times a week. It's just been such a drastic and immediate change. I'm grasping at straws here. What I've been doing for the past month hasn't been working. I was hoping the apartment topic would help reality sink in. I will really try to convince her to keep the dinner date.
