Don't even say the "friends" thing. You need to STOP. Yes, still go to dinner and have a good time. I heard all of that too, and it took him about 3 months to come around. Do not move out and do not mention again looking for apartments or that you see that there is no hope. You need to start DB'ing big time. You need to SHOW her that you love her, no more R talks, no more pushing her to make some sort of decision. It won't work. SHE needs to see what it is she is giving up and losing. SHE needs to see that you 2 still "have it," it was just sat on the back burner for a long time and it needs to be heated up again.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
