I also just read the part about your H traveling. Just from my perspective/sitch, my H is deployed for a year. We were really only "ok" for about a month before he left. I made it perfectly clear that, yes, I trust him b/c I'm choosing to trust him, but if another A happens, I WILL NOT and CANNOT live w/ that. That could be another avenue since you may not be able to travel w/ him.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
