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Had to go back and read your stuff again. So, if his 2 complaints are messy / no initiation of sex, ok, welcome to marriage! Have you guys talked about kids? I ask that cuz those are probably 2 things that get WORSE when kids come along. So is he trying to play out your lives together knowing that? That would have actually scared me if my wife was a slob (not that you are, I dont know) and never initiated sex, because after 4 kids, women tend to have less energy in both of those departments. I personally tried to take up the slack, but failed in my efforts cuz I did it in the wrong way, "you owe me" but enough about me.

Does this make any sense in your sitch?


Me: 46
Wife: 39
D: 13 S: 11, 9, 7
Bomb 3.2.07, Sep Same Day, D papers 11.1.07
Current Status - Wants to take me through Discovery, I will go to prison first.