I was looking over some forums and I think it may be helpful for you to look in the Advice From Wise DB'ers. There are some posts from WAW.
I just wanted to throw this in also...be very careful about the LRT! That is why it is called that. It is the last thing for you to do. It is just my guess that you are not ready for that yet. Only when your heart can't take another minute of what she dishes out or you feel like you have nothing more to loose or you are ready for it to end...which ever way that may be...is when to use the LRT (if I understand it). In other words, you have reached that place where you are ready to live without her in your life from now on...if she doesn't re-act positively to the LRT.
Look at these different stories under this formum I mentioned and then let me know your thoughts. I was reading one that was posted a long time ago and I read the pain in this WAW and she was really fed up with other people's attitude toward the WAS. Anyway, read some of that and I'll also look around the board. As I've said, I sure no expert on the subject....just been in the boat. Plus, I care and so do a lot of other people here.
Keep hanging on. There were times I didn't think I would make it through the night, but I kept reading and got more material under my belt until I started getting stronger. Let me know what you think about that forum.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
