Need advice on WAW with OM

[svejk]

Hi Sandi2,

I really appreciate your response. It doesn't make the situation any easier but at least I have an idea of why my wife is acting the way she is.

Is there anything in particular that your husband did besides not financially supporting your lifestyle that helped you to change your mind and come back to your husband? Or anything else you can think of that he did in general that helped you make up your mind? Did he practice the LRT?

Any details would help me very much because it sounds like your situation is very similar to my wife's. I'm confused about what to do. I know that not contacting her works, because then she comes back and talks to me every few days but then it always goes back to no contact (and if I contact her she gets very upset about it and usually hangs up on me even if I don't say anything beyond 'Hello, how are you doing'.)

I need to somehow break this pattern, because it has been like this for months w/out any changes. I must be doing something wrong or there must be something else I can try. Anything you can think of is greatly appreciated.

Thanks very much,
Svejk