Shocked H in NJ looking for DB help

[Willing NJ H]

This may be in a prior part of your thread - but I wanted to ask some q's about your living situation: Are you guys living in the same house? Sep. bedrooms? Has there been any affection b/t you guys ie hugs, kisses etc? What has the daily conversation been like?

Thanks guys.
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We are living in the same house, because we don't have the finances for any other options. (She hasn't liked it very much, but I leave her alone.) In general, She has the bed and I have the sofa. If I am working early the next morning, I get the bed. There has been no affection or contact of any kind physically and nothing verbal either. Most daily conversations are somewhat tense. She's wanted enough space that she doesn't see me at all, except for exchanging D. I refuse to give up time with D, and so does she, so we end up eating breakfast or doing things around the house together because of D.