The same I guess... I got myself centered after my post above and I did not confront him when he came home. He walked in the door and both of us just kinda looked at each like we knew what the other was thinking (him= I got wasted and knew I should have called, me= damn right you should have called) and I left it at that. There has been minor chitchat here and there today & we grabbed takeout from the deli (mostly in silence) but not much more than that. I keep wanting to say "Is there anything you want to talk about?" - but I don't know...