Ugh. H came over yesterday to get stuff and was supposed to come over today to work on the yard. Well, he came over today, but only got some more stuff (he was meeting his dad at his apartment). So, he plans to come back over in a few hours to do the yard work. I went to dinner with a (guy) friend yesterday who basically pegged my H. With extremely limited info, he was able to have insight that I wouldn't have thought. So, here's the kicker: When I told him that my H had said that he "was trying to find himself", my friend said "no he doesn't. He means that he wants to f other women. He already knows who he is."
Today as H was leaving, he came and gave me a hug and a kiss on the lips-- and started in towards my butt and bra. And I was like "errr...excuse me?" as I wiggled away. He tried a couple more times (as I wiggled and said nope) and then gave up.
I am sure he didn't really think I would be able to 'resist' him. whatever.
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing